ParTay
Last night, I actually went out. With other Adults! Can you believe it?

About 4:50 one of the guys at work (I'll call him J) asked if I wanted to meet him and some of the others at a Mexican Chain Restaurant for dinner and drinks. I thought it sounded like fun to I messaged N.

Have I mentioned that we have trouble making decisions? The problem is, neither of us wants to FORCE the other to do something they don't want to, and we both want to see the other happy. So, the conversation went like this:

Me: Hey, J just invited us out to Large Mexican Chain Restaurant do you want to go?
N: Do YOU want to go?
Me: I would like to, but I know you said earlier that you had a headache.
N: Yeah, I do have a headache.
Me: Well do you want to stay home then?
N: What do you want to do?
Me: I don't know, I don't know how you're feeling.
N: I'm kind of tired but if you want to go, I'll meet you there.
Me: Actually I was thinking of coming to get you so that we could come in one car.
N: Oh, well if that's what you want to do.

Lather, Rinse, Repeat..

Can you hear me screaming about now?

Finally I said.

Me: I would like to go, I think it could be fun, but it's up to you. I know you have a headache and if you don't feel like it, I have no problem staying at home.
N: I think we should go, it may actually help my headache who knows.
Me: Ok, do you want me to come get you?
N: Uh, I would like to take one car, so yes, I think that would be better.
Me: *sighing with relief* Good, I'm leaving now.

We went out, we had a good time. His headache didn't get better, but I 'rewarded' him for coming out to make up for it. Best of all I got to feel like an adult for an hour or two, and I got to prove to my coworkers that I'm not the snob that they thought I was. Heh.

I would like to add that this Large Mexican Restraint Chain has EXCELLENT super LARGE Margaritas... I had two!